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Currently Reading: queer authors
Anna Dorn and her latest, Perfume & Pain Every once in a while I take stock of whom I'm reading. As I got older, I realized I had been...
2 days ago2 min read

So long, 2024!
Well, it’s BEEN A YEAR. We’ve seen some serious shit and some wondrous magic. I’m not going to wax poetic about it all, because currently...
Dec 31, 20241 min read

UGH. Call in the Magic Ratio, stat.
What else is there to say after November 5th, 2024? I can rant and rave, but I've done that and will do it again. For the inbetween...
Nov 8, 20241 min read


Recently read: Park Cruising
One of the best books I’ve read in a while is Marcus McCann’s Park Cruising: What happens when we wander off the path . Taking the police...
Sep 30, 20241 min read


Thriving on the outskirts
Anthropologist Gayle Rubin unpacked in her 1984 essay Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality how...
Sep 11, 20243 min read


Currently reading: Marissa G. Franco
I‘m currently reading Platonic: How The Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends by Marisa G. Franco. In it she...
Aug 31, 20241 min read

I got some with Michelle Fischler
One of my favourite things to do is chat with fellow peeps about sex, porn, and what gets people off. Michelle Fischler invited me to her...
Mar 31, 20241 min read
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